DIY couples therapy

The word ‘therapy’ comes from the Greek therapeia which means “curing and healing.” And that is exactly what transpires with […]
the religious impulse

All cultures throughout history have had some form of religion. We all agree on that. But on the question of […]
the reality of your relationships

Forming and maintaining healthy and satisfying relationships is a messy, complicated and difficult endeavor for us humans. So what is […]
emotional sobriety

Putting down the addictive substance (alcohol, cocaine, pills, pot) or activity (gambling, porn, shopping, hoarding) is where sobriety begins, not […]
self-love: healthy or neurotic?

Some people seek psychotherapy in NYC with the following thought in mind: “I need to love myself more.” Who […]
toxic patterns in relationships

It’s natural for people to enter couples therapy or marriage counseling with very strong thoughts and feelings about what their […]
stay out of other people’s heads

In the world of addiction, recovery and therapy in NYC, it is common to hear people say: “What other people […]
approval seeking & people pleasing

Codependency is a term often used to name some of the self-defeating ways that human beings can participate in […]
re-thinking negative emotions

It is generally assumed in our culture that negative emotions are, well, negative. Unwanted. Garbage. Don’t talk about them. Deny […]
hello darkness, my old friend

If we want to achieve emotional balance and peace of mind in our lives, we need to make friends with […]